How to date

Maturity and uncertainty about dating

So, you’re a little older and you’re looking for fun? Maybe dating? Maybe a potential life partner? But you’re afraid you’re too old and the train has passed you by?

Don’t worry! Because that’s totally untrue. There are plenty of mature women and men out there who want to score. Let’s address some issues first. Age is just a number. As long as what you’re doing is legal (in the sense that you’re not having sex with a minor) and consensual, then all is well. Just because you’re single and a little older doesn’t mean you can’t have as much fun as everyone else. You have needs, desires, passions and wants too, don’t you? You want them to be met.

Here’s what you can do. Some communities organize special events for mature people to connect with other mature people. It can be very fun and interesting and is a great way to meet new people. If that’s not your thing, or you’re just too shy or anxious, then there are plenty of options. The truth is that younger men desire to sleep with older women and vice versa. As a result, there are many sites dedicated to mature dating, and hooking up with mature people.

Apps like Tinder and Okcupid may not be for you. The age range isn’t that wide, but of course, you can always give it a try. You may meet someone who really wants to meet you or wants to sleep with you.

Like I said before, there are many sites dedicated to mature dating and mature singles. For example: They claim they are a mature dating and personals service exclusively for mature singles over forty. is also a site that offers a similar service, but overall looks better and feels more coordinated than the last one. They claim they are the easiest online dating site. It’s free and has over 25 million singles. Whether you’re a single parent, separated, divorced or never married, this site makes it easy and fun to hang out with mature adults. They even have their own app!

Another site similar to this is They understand that when you reach a certain age, it can be difficult to find the right person to talk to, hook up with or date. Their goal is to help you in a safe, easy and free way. They claim they specialize in dating over forty and they claim to be one of the few truly free and mature dating sites around. They don’t believe you should have to pay in order to find someone you might like.